Trying rose-colored glasses on

“There are not enough interesting people around me”.

This is a thought many of my single friends and clients have.
And one that I definitely used to hold on to.
This idea of scarcity, that good guys are a rare resource and that I have no clue where to find the secret stash.

I remember when someone reminded me that with 7,7 billion people on the planet there should be some guy for me… more than one even, probably a few thousand soulmates (Boom!)

This simple information opened my mind to a new perspective.

We all do this. Holding on to ideas that are not useful.
Not only do we not question these thoughts, but we also spent our time searching for evidence to support them.

Convinced by my “no guys around” theory, every time I would go out and not meet anyone interesting, I would tell myself “see I told you, there is NO one out there”, reinforcing deeper my belief, over and over.

I dare you to challenge your beliefs.

Ask yourself: is this really true? Is this helping me?
And then try on another belief, for fun, just to see how it feels like.
As if you were trying on a new pair of colored-glasses
For ex: “There are so many potential partners around me who are looking for love AND ready for me right now!”
Chances are that you’ll soon start seeing the world differently...