Deciding how you want to date

As the lockdown started, one of my clients had to change her approach to meet guys.

Not able anymore to meet them through social or professional networking, she had to resort to dating apps.
She hated the idea.
It didn’t feel natural to her.
She had the impression all the guys there were boring, that the process was heartless.

With that kind of thoughts, she didn’t even try the first weeks.

But then, she understood she had a choice…She could decide to wait for the lockdown to end, for the world to return to normalcy to start dating as she used to.

Or

She could decide to believe that there were many really cool guys behind that screen.
She could decide to see the app as a simple medium.
She could decide that it could actually be fun to explore new connections this way.

And just like this, she changed her mindset, her filter through which she was seeing the world, in a way that was serving her.
She started using dating apps, connecting with men with potential, and… having fun in the process.

You can’t change the circumstances around you.
You have no influence over the fact that everyone is at home, waiting for the situation to evolve.
But you definitely have power over your actions, and behind your actions over your feelings and thoughts.

You get to decide.